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(Some) Areas of Focus

Sexuality, relationships, and identity are vast areas of focus and no two experiences or people are the same. Please don’t hesitate to reach out, even if what you are looking doesn’t fall neatly into one of these categories—it is a non-exhaustive list!

  • Kink / fetish

  • Non-monogamy / polyamory / open or non-traditional relationships, consensual non-monogamy (CNM), ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging

  • Gender identity / transgender identity / navigating transitioning

  • Sexual identity / sexuality

  • LGBTQ+ identity

  • Sexual shame

  • Sexual difficulties or dysfunctions (erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, low libido, orgasm difficulty, etc.)

  • Desire discrepancy in relationships (ie, one partner wants sex more than another)

  • Affairs / infidelity

  • Out of control / compulsive sexual behavior

  • Performance anxiety during sex

  • Intimacy issues in relationships

  • Sex & dating

  • Self-acceptance

  • Increasing pleasure during sex

  • Improving sexual function

  • "Purity Culture" recovery

  • Sexual values

  • Communication, conflict in relationships

  • Sex work (affirming)

  • Lack of desire, low libido

  • Mismatched desires or fetishes in relationships

  • Fear or anxiety regarding sex, intimacy, or relationships

  • "Am I normal?" / "Is this normal?" concerns regarding sex