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(Some) Areas of Focus

Sexuality, relationships, and identity are vast areas of focus and no two experiences or people are the same. Please don’t hesitate to reach out, even if what you are looking doesn’t fall neatly into one of these categories—it is a non-exhaustive list!

  • "Am I normal?" / "Is this normal?" concerns regarding sex

  • Sexual identity / sexuality

  • Sexual difficulties or dysfunctions (erectile dysfunction, pain during sex, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, low libido, orgasm difficulty, etc.)

  • Intimacy issues in relationships

  • Kink / fetish

  • Non-monogamy / polyamory / open or non-traditional relationships, consensual non-monogamy (CNM), ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging

  • Gender identity / transgender identity / navigating transitioning

  • LGBTQ+ identity

  • Sexual shame

  • Desire discrepancy in relationships (ie, one partner wants sex more than another)

  • Affairs / infidelity

  • Out of control / compulsive sexual behavior

  • Performance anxiety during sex

  • Sex & dating

  • Self-acceptance

  • Increasing pleasure during sex

  • Improving sexual function

  • "Purity Culture" recovery

  • Sexual values

  • Communication, conflict in relationships

  • Sex work (affirming)

  • Lack of desire, low libido

  • Mismatched desires or fetishes in relationships

  • Fear or anxiety regarding sex, intimacy, or relationships